First off, doll, the cherry is a purely internal affair. It sounds like you were dry-humping your partner rather than screwing him, and if that's the case, it would have to be some pretty intense humping (ie: causing massive internal damage) before it would do anything to your cherry.

And there's actually a significant chance you didn't even have a cherry. Nowadays, sports and tampons are taking care of business long before us girls ever have a chance to encounter a dick/dildo. Three years of football took care of mine...imagine how surprised the guys on the team would be to find out that they collectively took my cherry! And even if you had one—contrary to romance novels everywhere—the busting of the cherry doesn't involve agonizing pain and oodles of blood. From what I've heard, it's a much quieter process, involving mild discomfort and just enough blood to freak guys out.

As for "seeing bits" in the days following....*frowns and blinks*....the only thing I can think of is if you segue way-ed directly into your period, where clots of blood can take on disturbingly chunk-like form. You might want to go see an OB/GYN. They can probably answer much better than a cherry-less sexaholic like myself.

While I'm guessing that this question is a moot point by now -- my experience has been that once there's some heavy dry-humping action involved, it's not long before the guy gets to actually take the plunge -- but just in case you're still holding out, you have two options:

A: Go to a GYN and have them confirm/deny the popping of the Sacred Cherry.

or

B: Become a born-again Christian. Not only do you instantly become re-virginized, but you also get the added benefit of obtaining a second belly button. Yes, that's right, if you get born again, Jesus is forced to throw in that second belly button for free.

One quick note, though...why did you "need to know ASAP"?!? Family tradition of celebrating the rupture of this Blessed Fruit? Need to mark it in your diary next to your First Flowing of the Holy Blood-Water? Will it be as defining a moment as your discovery that the Hills of Mount Sinai had begun terraforming on your chest?

Hmmm, this only really matters if you're next in line to inherit a kingdom and your purity depends on it.

In reality, your cherry is not so much a physical part of you, but a state of mind. But if you are concerned about the intactfulness of your hyman, let me put it this way...he would have to be rubbing you with the coarsest sandpaper created by the most technically advanced and gapped tooth employee at Home Depot Corporate Office, with an electric sander developed by NASA to remove space scum off of satalites, for about two weeks before your hyman would know about it. So, given that, I think you're in the clear.

Personally, I am more concerned with you partner's ever growing, blue grapefruits. You've got to squeeze that juice for him before he explodes. Oh, and don't forget to wear eye protection.